tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4211674678201251588.post7591995104722441010..comments2023-09-25T07:18:11.130-07:00Comments on It's All About Balance: Xhausting VisitsAprilhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12051174636017409935noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4211674678201251588.post-75017604476891859762008-10-01T08:21:00.000-07:002008-10-01T08:21:00.000-07:00I finally figured it out. What you said about when...I finally figured it out. What you said about when we would get along and so X thought about trying again. That must be what Mr. B. is attempting. When my parents divorced I tried the same thing. Poor girls. And to get that call about his arrest on your daughter's birthday. Wow.Shionahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12492147249152256505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4211674678201251588.post-66947493882336376782008-09-24T09:53:00.000-07:002008-09-24T09:53:00.000-07:00April, thank you for sharing so openly about what ...April, thank you for sharing so openly about what you went through. I'm sure it will give strength to others.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02362687820368214420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4211674678201251588.post-20673875390354145292008-09-23T19:31:00.000-07:002008-09-23T19:31:00.000-07:00These stories this last week have been heartbreaki...These stories this last week have been heartbreaking... but yet so very interesting as well. My heart goes out to you and your girls for everything you've been through. Thank you for sharing this.Jeff and Charli Leehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13868852480996815442noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4211674678201251588.post-15245544163358626292008-09-23T06:39:00.000-07:002008-09-23T06:39:00.000-07:00I remember being the kid on the dad doesn't show u...I remember being the kid on the dad doesn't show up end of it. It was pretty disheartening. My sister took it much worse. I just stopped believing in him. Less disappointment that way.Me. Here. Right now.https://www.blogger.com/profile/17340392061207298502noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4211674678201251588.post-90852614168208462732008-09-22T19:12:00.000-07:002008-09-22T19:12:00.000-07:00I'm loving getting caught up in/on this story... e...I'm loving getting caught up in/on this story... even if it is raising my blood pressure a bit.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4211674678201251588.post-88175763645523209462008-09-22T14:00:00.000-07:002008-09-22T14:00:00.000-07:00Oy. Variations on a horrible theme that too many o...Oy. Variations on a horrible theme that too many of us have lived through. Couldn't we get some fairy dust sprinkled over the world (non-toxic, of course), that will make people act nicely, maturely, and empathetically, especially to those they supposedly love? <BR/><BR/>I am coming to see that those of use who have to live these lives are, well, destined to these lives for some reason. It really is our journey, and part of that journey is steering ourselves out of it, perhaps to prevent our children from living the bitterness of our lives?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4211674678201251588.post-1794651483541979962008-09-22T08:51:00.000-07:002008-09-22T08:51:00.000-07:00Gah, it drives me nuts when people think that stay...Gah, it drives me nuts when people think that staying together is what's best for the kids. These people have no idea what it is like for a kid to have two parents living together that can't get along. <BR/><BR/>My son gets to those emotional points too and people tell me the same thing. It's because he trusts me and it's like, yeah, but what do I do about it? I actually feel that Eric and I have a very positive situation for him so I am probably a little too hard on him during his outbursts.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4211674678201251588.post-37364823964009418242008-09-22T05:57:00.000-07:002008-09-22T05:57:00.000-07:00Oh good lord. What a mess. How hard for your fam...Oh good lord. What a mess. How hard for your family and for youSuziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13150191994661266181noreply@blogger.com